An early lesson learned while attending The Ohio State University involved two men. I had a terrible crush on the one and barely knew the other.
Crush was my junior by a year and was back home hanging with his boys and working—I presume. He never called. I always called. So, despite my number coming up, out of his sight, I sank completely out of mind. I learned a little later that boys like men (if he aims his bow at all) prefer being Cupid.